Wednesday, April 20, 2011

Want Your Kids Confident? This trick

shy child

Who would not want to have a confident child. The children confident abstinence become timid and generally can solve small problems before him. He also does not always depend on their parents.

Making confident child can not be done overnight. You need to build it while he was a toddler. How do tricks, the following tips, as summarized from the babycenter site:

# Do not compare

Do not be too often compare your child with another child, whether it be friends or even more relatives. Instead, focus on what makes your child different and let him know specifically how to overcome them. "That alone will help improve her confidence and make them more comfortable in front of others," said Lynne Milliner, a child psychologist at the Hospital of Cleveland.

# Do not give a "label" your child

Never label a child, let alone in front of others, said psychologist Tina Payne Bryson, PhD. For example, if your child is hiding behind your legs and refused to greet your colleagues, you may be tempted to say something like, "Sorry, Uncle, he's shy." Instead, tell your child, "It's okay now embarrassed, but we'll shake it?"

# Be a model for children

Be an example in front of your child friendliness, said Sara Lise Raff, educational consultant. For example, if you go to a new environment for the children, show them how to "enter" in that group. For example, one of whom greeted with light conversation, "I love your new doll, Emily. What's his name?" Children love to imitate their parents' behavior, so see you comfortable with other people will show him there is nothing to fear.

# Do not be too hard to punish

Research shows that children whose parents brought them up too hard, will make the child withdraw. "For shy children feel uncertainty and anxiety in certain social situations, when parents force them to participate, it just makes them more anxious, making it less likely they would be willing to try it next time," said parenting expert, Tina Payne Bryson. If your child insists that he does not want to do something that was frightening for him, let him know you are there to make her feel safe, but do not force him.

# But, also do not be too protect

On the other hand, he said, it is important that you give your child the opportunity to succeed in new situations. "Help your child take gentle steps towards the achievement and accomplishment. For example by saying," I know it's hard (or you feel uncomfortable), but I'll be with you. Let's try it. "

# Minor compliments are very important

Let your child know how proud you are to progress. "Every opportunity that exists, and especially when your child next to you, comment on the newly acquired skills," said Barack Levin, author of The Diaper Chronicles: A Stay-at-Home Dad's Quest for Raising Great Kids.

# Express your love

Love the parents in turn will help their children develop self-esteem and confidence, said Renee Mosiman, a family therapist and co-author of The Smarter Preschooler: Unlocking Your Child's Intellectual Potential. . Knowing that you're around to supervise and reach out when needed will help your child feel comfortable being around other people. So, occasionally giving hugs and kisses legitimate.

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Tuesday, April 19, 2011

One in Four Children UK could Aged 100 Years

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LONDON - More than one out of every four children who now live in England, or about 3.3 million people aged 16 years and under, has a great opportunity to celebrate milad them to 100 later, so named by the Ministry of English for Work and Pensions, Tuesday.

Overall, 11 million Britons, or one sixth of the population could be 100 years old at the time later. "These figures confirm how the life expectancy in this country are changing - millions of people will spend more than a third of his life in a nursing home," said Minister of Pensions Steve Webb said in a statement.

According to data from the United States Intelligence Agency (CIA), Britain was in a position to 28 out of 222 countries in terms of life expectancy in 2011. Life expectancy is 80.05 years in England. While the country with the highest life expectancy is Monaco, with 89.73 years.

Japan, Canada, France, Spain, Sweden, Italy, and Ireland are countries which have a top ranking in terms of life expectancy, is above the UK. United States on the other hand has only been in 50th position with 78.37-year life expectancy.

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Thursday, April 7, 2011

Want to Be the Perfect Father? This is a trick

JAKARTA - Any father would want to build a distinctive image in the eyes of a child. Some still have an attractive range with his child. Perhaps, in order to maintain authority.

How to be a perfect father? The following tips:

* Help your child get up. Regardless of age, children still baby which you want to continue to protect. Sometimes, bad things can happen to them without your block. When that happens, help them to rise. Avoid judgmental. Stay away from the phrase, "Right, right, says dad!" Instead, prepare you for her lean shoulders, crying off sadness.
* Prioritize needs. Once you become a parent, get rid of personal egos. Now, everything about the child. A good father would put the needs of children as a priority.

* Provide them with affection. In younger children, the words of affection will not feel his impression. Show your feelings by enjoying time with her, hold her, play, or just there at his side.

* Spend some special time to interact with children. Children do not need expensive gifts or money nan. They want to fill the time with a quality relationship with his father.

* Enjoy your life. When you are happy, joy will be visible imprint on your behavior and it's fun for kids. So, do not forget to set aside time for yourself.

* Balance cheerfulness with regulations. This will help children learn how to behave properly.

* Try to apply flexible. Sometimes, work and other commitments to make life a lame side. Family life is a bit neglected because of it. How busy you are, make sure the child knows his father will be there with him when he needed it.


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Monday, April 4, 2011

Why Asian Nations lose Creative compared with the Western Nations?

Prof. Ng Aik Kwang from the University of Queensland, in his book "Why Asians Are Less Creative Than Westerners" (2001) that are considered controversial, but turned out to be a "best seller". ( suggested a few things about the peoples of Asia that has opened eyes and minds of many people:

1. For most Asian people, In Their culture, measure of success in life is the amount of material that is owned (house, car, money and other property). Passion (love thdp something) is less appreciated. As a result, less popular areas of creativity, by profession a doctor, lawyer, and the like are considered to be faster to have made a lot of wealth.

2. For Asian people, The number of property Owned by more appreciated than HOW Such acquire property. No wonder if more people liked the stories, novels, soap operas or movies on the theme of poor people suddenly became rich because of luck finding the treasure, or a wife by the prince and the rest of it. Not surprisingly, when corrupt behavior was tolerated / accepted as something natural.

3. For Asian people, identical with the rote-based education "answer key" rather than on understanding. National exam, college entrance tests, etc. all based on memorization. Up to degree level, students must memorize formulas exact science and other arithmetical not directed to understand when and how to use the formula formula.

4. Because the rote-based, students at schools in Asia crammed as much as possible lessons. They are trained to be "Jack of all trades, but master of none" (know a little bit about many things but did not control anything).

5. Because the rote-based, many Asian students could be Olympic champion in Physics, and Mathematics. But hardly ever Asian to win Nobel org or other distinguished international prize-based innovation and creativity.

6. Asians fear one (analogous) and fear of losing. Due to its exploratory nature as efforts to satisfy curiosity and courage to take risks underappreciated.

7. For most Asian nations, said it means stupid, so curiosity has no place in the education process in schools

8. For fear of fear of being wrong and stupid, at school or in seminars or workshops, participants often want to ask but ended the session timeout participants gathered around the teacher / resource person to ask for additional explanation.

Aik Kwang Prof.Ng in his book offers some solutions as follows:

1. Appreciate the process. Appreciate people for his service not because of his wealth. Useless proud pilgrimage or building mosques or schools but the money from the proceeds of corruption.

2. Stop the answer key-based education. Let the students understand the field he likes best.

3. Do not jejali students with a lot of memorization, especially mathematics. For what the calculator was created if the answer to X x Y have to memorize? Let the students choose subjects a little but really mastered

4. Let your child choose a profession based on the Passion (love) him on the field, rather than forcing him to take a particular field or profession who make money faster

5. Primary creativity is curiosity dare to take risks. PLEASE ASK!

6. The teacher is a facilitator, not a god who must know everything. Let's admit with pride that WE DO NOT KNOW!

7. Passion of man is God's gift .. as parents we are responsible for directing our children to find passionnya and support it.

Hopefully by then, we can have children and grandchildren who are creative, innovative but also have integrity and high ideals without corruption

Note: Article translate from Blog Ayah Edy

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