Want Your Kids Confident? This trick


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Who would not want to have a confident child. The children confident abstinence become timid and generally can solve small problems before him. He also does not always depend on their parents.

Making confident child can not be done overnight. You need to build it while he was a toddler. How do tricks, the following tips, as summarized from the babycenter site:

# Do not compare

Do not be too often compare your child with another child, whether it be friends or even more relatives. Instead, focus on what makes your child different and let him know specifically how to overcome them. "That alone will help improve her confidence and make them more comfortable in front of others," said Lynne Milliner, a child psychologist at the Hospital of Cleveland.

# Do not give a "label" your child

Never label a child, let alone in front of others, said psychologist Tina Payne Bryson, PhD. For example, if your child is hiding behind your legs and refused to greet your colleagues, you may be tempted to say something like, "Sorry, Uncle, he's shy." Instead, tell your child, "It's okay now embarrassed, but we'll shake it?"

# Be a model for children

Be an example in front of your child friendliness, said Sara Lise Raff, educational consultant. For example, if you go to a new environment for the children, show them how to "enter" in that group. For example, one of whom greeted with light conversation, "I love your new doll, Emily. What's his name?" Children love to imitate their parents' behavior, so see you comfortable with other people will show him there is nothing to fear.

# Do not be too hard to punish

Research shows that children whose parents brought them up too hard, will make the child withdraw. "For shy children feel uncertainty and anxiety in certain social situations, when parents force them to participate, it just makes them more anxious, making it less likely they would be willing to try it next time," said parenting expert, Tina Payne Bryson. If your child insists that he does not want to do something that was frightening for him, let him know you are there to make her feel safe, but do not force him.

# But, also do not be too protect

On the other hand, he said, it is important that you give your child the opportunity to succeed in new situations. "Help your child take gentle steps towards the achievement and accomplishment. For example by saying," I know it's hard (or you feel uncomfortable), but I'll be with you. Let's try it. "

# Minor compliments are very important

Let your child know how proud you are to progress. "Every opportunity that exists, and especially when your child next to you, comment on the newly acquired skills," said Barack Levin, author of The Diaper Chronicles: A Stay-at-Home Dad's Quest for Raising Great Kids.

# Express your love

Love the parents in turn will help their children develop self-esteem and confidence, said Renee Mosiman, a family therapist and co-author of The Smarter Preschooler: Unlocking Your Child's Intellectual Potential. . Knowing that you're around to supervise and reach out when needed will help your child feel comfortable being around other people. So, occasionally giving hugs and kisses legitimate.

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